Those who seek to follow Jesus Christ are called to submit to him in every area of life. In our attitudes, finances, relationships, priorities, and values, Jesus Christ calls us to ‘repent’ and believe that he alone is King. He alone is worthy of our devotion. He alone can show us the path to true life.
But we humans love going our own way. We don’t want anyone telling us what to do. That approach has left us estranged from God. Spiritually disconnected. We’ve pushed God away, seeking to be our own gods – our own final authorities. But Jesus came to change that. Jesus is the one who gave his life to reconcile us to our Maker. Our response should be to thankfully surrender to him. His ways are true and loving. His commands are given for our good. His heart is set on us truly flourishing.
It is this God who created the institution of marriage.
That’s why biblical Christians sense a great deal of unease when the issue of redefining marriage is raised. Marriage is an institution as old as humanity itself. It’s always been defined as a special union of one man and one woman. For those who can, or wish to, it’s the perfect place to bring children into the world. For as long as history has been recorded, heterosexual marriages have played a crucial role in every stable society.
Joining a man and woman together for a life-long journey is also sacred – it reflects the complementary differences that exist throughout our cosmos: light and darkness, hot and cold, wet and dry, mountains and valleys, day and night, life and death. Then there’s male and female. Woven into our very universe are myriads of complementary unions of essential difference.
But to redefine marriage moves us away from this obvious, time-honoured union.
Now is a time for Christians to be careful. It is a time for deep reflection and prayer. It is a time to speak carefully, clearly, and respectfully. It is also a time for faithfulness.
Below are some links that can help you think further about the institution of marriage, from a Christian perspective:
“A Better Story – a biblical vision for sex and marriage” by Prof. Glynn Harrison
“The Logic of Classical Marriage” by John Dickson
“Why it Makes Sense to Oppose Same-Sex Marriage” by Andrew Errington
“Same-Sex Marriage Undermines the Purpose of the Institution” by Anthony Fischer
“I Oppose Same-Sex Marriage (and no I’m not a bigot)” by Michael Jensen
The point of all these links is not hate or bigotry. It’s not about shaming anyone, as though gay people are the scum of the earth. They’re not. It’s about a genuine, peaceful objection to the changing of a fundamental human institution. There are good historical, sociological, and theological reasons to have some reservations about same-sex marriage.
It might be the case that no matter what we say, laws are passed to redefine marriage. This is a democracy after all. If that’s what people want, that’s what they’ll eventually get.
But that’s OK. Whatever happens, the church’s mission still remains the same: to call people back to their Maker by submitting to the one who gave his life for us.
Let’s remember the key issue facing humans is not who they marry.
It’s what they worship.
It’s who they ultimately serve.
For one final link, here’s something else to chew on:
“Do we Love Gay People?” by Akos Balogh